Parenting

Navigating Your Options for an Unplanned Pregnancy

As you consider your options during an unplanned pregnancy, including abortion, adoption, and parenting, you may be wondering if becoming a parent—or parenting an additional child—is the right choice for you. These can be difficult questions to answer:

  • Am I emotionally prepared to become a parent?

  • Can I afford the financial responsibilities of raising a child?

  • How will pregnancy impact my physical health?

At Pregnancy Support Services (PSS), we believe in empowering women with real choices. If you're considering parenting but feeling unsure about whether you're ready, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way. Our caring, supportive team can help you explore what parenting could look like for you and provide practical resources to help you make an informed decision.

Understanding Parenting: What to Consider

Choosing to parent is a significant decision, and it’s okay to have questions. We offer guidance on:

  • Emotional Readiness – Processing your feelings and preparing for the journey ahead.

  • Financial Considerations – Understanding the costs of parenting and finding financial assistance.

  • Relationship Dynamics – Navigating conversations with your partner, family, and friends.

  • Career & Education – Exploring how to continue working or attending school while parenting.

  • Parenting Skills – Learning the basics of newborn care, discipline, and child development.

  • Social Support – Finding encouragement through local community connections.

  • Future Planning – Setting goals and creating a path forward for you and your child.

  • Health Considerations – Taking care of yourself and your baby throughout pregnancy and beyond.

Practical Support: Parenting Education & Support Groups

If parenting feels overwhelming, you don’t have to figure it all out alone. We provide free pregnancy education, classes, and support groups to help you feel more prepared. Topics include:

  • Childbirth

  • Breastfeeding

  • Infant CPR

  • Newborn care

  • Pregnancy nutrition

You’ll also have the chance to connect with other pregnant and parenting women in the Durham and Chapel Hill area, helping you build a strong support network. Our center also offers Men’s Services, including counseling, to guide men who want to become stronger partners and prepare for fatherhood.

Explore Parenting as an Option

We know that deciding between parenting, adoption, or abortion is not easy. We offer free, confidential consultations where you can ask questions, get medical support, and receive honest, compassionate guidance—no pressure, no judgment.